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Friday, July 26, 2013

Fresh From The Garden...





With moving the past few summers, we haven't been able to have a garden of our own.  This year especially, however, we have been blessed with some of the extra produce from friends and church members.  My husband has been visiting all of the church members over the past few weeks, and we've gotten quite a bit.  Pictured above are some Red Velvet Beet Cupcakes with Cream Cheese Buttercream Frosting made with a handful of beets, and a zucchini that will soon turn into some yummy zucchini bread.  (Please ignore my terrible frosting piping skills. I've been trying to get better at decorating for years - see my cakes for examples - and I just don't have the talent for it.)

We were given several bunches of fresh dill which is now drying in our dining room.

We've also had roasted baby red potatoes and onions, tossed in oil with salt, pepper, and fresh dill.

We enjoyed a mixture of wax beans and green beans fried up with bacon and onions.  There's not much better than onions fried up in bacon grease, let me tell you.

Most of these garden items can be paired with a cut of meat or another menu item we already had planned, and are a great fresh side to add to our meals.  I'm loving the random assortment of produce, and searching for recipes to try something new!  What's growing in your garden right now?

Thursday, July 25, 2013

Expectations

Expectations can set you up for failure.

Today, I woke up expecting to be able to snooze for a few more minutes as I usually do while my husband gets up with the boys.  Hannah had other ideas.  I expected to be able to somewhat enjoy my coffee (which I brewed fresh at 8:00 a.m.) throughout the morning as I usually do.  I finished it just before we left for the park at 2:30 p.m.  When we got to the park, I expected the kids to run around while sat quietly at a table with Hannah and played on my phone.  We spent most of the time with me pushing them on the swings and negotiating who got to play with the sand shovel.  I am learning that a day with children rarely turns out quite as I expected.

And it's not just kids that throw me for a loop.  I have expectations of my husband too.  For example, I don't like the fan blowing directly on me.  Except for when I do.  He should move it because it's bothering me the way it is.

I get stressed out by the pile of dishes that take over the kitchen sink and part of the counter, and just seeing them puts me in a bad mood.  I want for them to get done, whether by me while he watches the baby, or by him while I sit with her.

But I haven't necessarily vocalized these things, and while it's possible that over the course of 6 years of marriage my husband may have picked up on them, to expect him to read my mind and know them intuitively isn't realistic.

These things happen differently than I had expected, and it bothers me.  I get annoyed. I end up in a bad mood, and if enough things happen that I didn't expect, I get angry. 

Expectations can set you up for failure.  But only if you let them.

I didn't expect to write this blog post with Hannah sitting on my lap kicking my arms, while her brothers play with cars and Legos and interrupt me with questions.  In an ideal world, it would have gotten done while they were all napping at the same time. 

Being a parent is teaching me to adapt.  To make the best of the situation at hand.  And I fail, constantly.  But I pick myself back up and try again.  When I focus on what I have accomplished, what did go as planned, and the little things that were even better because they didn't, then I'm okay.  It may not have been what I expected.  But it was a little piece of life that happened, and I want to enjoy it for what it was, not what it might have been.

Weekly Coupon Shopping

Target
I was excited to try a few new apps on my iPhone with my coupon shopping this week: Cartwheel, iBotta, and some Target Mobile Coupons.  All worked very well, and I got everything pictured above for $6.25 (plus a $1.00 deposit back from iBotta)!

  • Annie's Bunnies: $2.79. Used $0.50/1 printable, and submitted for a $0.50 iBotta rebate = paid $2.29, get $0.50 rebate.
  • Evol Burrito: $2.49. Used $1.00/1 printable, and $1/1 frozen item (Target mobile coupon) = paid $0.49. I was going to use an iBotta rebate on this too, but it must have expired.
  • Van's Waffles: $2.50. Used $3/1 printable (take survey), which took off the full $3.00 = free plus $0.50 overage!
  • Edge Shave Gel: $2.44. Used $1/1 Target printable and 10% off Cartwheel coupon, then submitted for $0.50 iBotta rebate = paid $1.29, get $0.50 rebate.
  • 2 Schick Hydro Razors: $9.49 each. Used two $4/1 Target printables and two $4/1 printables (no longer available), plus 10% Cartwheel coupon = paid $0.94 each! These are my favorite razors.
  • 5 Bananas: $0.24 each. Used $1/1 fresh fruit Target mobile coupon = 5/$0.20!
  • Red Pepper: $1.19. Used $1/1 fresh veggie Target mobile coupon = $0.19!
  • Got $0.05 off for using my own bag.
  • Total spent: $6.25, got $1.00 iBotta rebate.
Here's a bit more about the apps I used:

Cartwheel: In case anyone was wondering, because I wasn't quite sure how this worked until I did it, the Cartwheel discount comes off after the Target coupons.  So for the razors, they were $9.49 each. The register took off the $4.00 Target coupon, bringing it down to $5.49, and the 10% came off of that ($0.55). And then the $4 manufacturer coupon came off, making them $0.94 each.

Mobile Coupons: For the mobile coupons, I have them saved to Passbook (an app that came preloaded on my iPhone), and I listed out the coupons on a piece of paper by date.  It's easier than trying to find which one belongs with which bar code at the register. This time all of my mobile coupons were under one bar code, so it was pretty easy, but if I ever use more than one at a time, then I know.

iBotta: This one is a bit more work, since you do the activities associated with the products ahead of time (take a poll, read a fact, etc.), and then once you purchase them you scan your receipt and the bar codes.  But it still only takes a few minutes, and it's pretty easy once you get the hang of it.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Weekly Coupon Shopping

Pick 'N Save
I went to Pick 'N Save on Saturday for another double double day, and did 2 transactions. For some reason, a couple of the juices and the butter from Transaction #2 ended up in the first picture.  Oh well!

Transaction #1:
  • 4 Kashi GoLean Crunch: on sale 4/$10.00. Used four $1/1 printables (doubled to $2/1) = paid $2/4, or $0.50 each!
  • Reese's Puffs Cereal: $2.50. Used $0.60/1 printable (doubled to $1.20/1) = paid $1.30, and I get a $0.50 SavingStar deposit back!
  • Tropicana Farmstand Juice: $2.99, save $2.00 on produce instantly.
  • 10 Mangoes: $3.99.
  • Celery: $0.99.
  • 10 Candy Bars: 10/$5 with ad coupon. Used two $0.50/2 Skittles/Starbursts (RP 06/02/13, doubled to $1/2) and three $0.50/2 Mars printables (doubled to $1/2) = 10 free!
  • Saved $0.25 for using my own bags.
  • Total before coupons: $38.83. Total after coupons: $8.63!
Transaction #2:
  • 4 Teddy Grahams: $1.99 each. Used two $1/2 printables (doubled to $2/2) = paid $3.96/4, or $0.98 each!
  • 2 Birdseye Frozen Green Beans: $1 each. Used $1/2 printable (doubled to $2/2) = 2 free!
  • 2 Larabars: $1 each. Used $1/2 printable (doubled to $2/2) = 2 free!
  • 2 Balance Bars: $1 each. Used $1/2 printable (doubled to $2/2) = 2 free!
  • 2 Welch's Juice: $2 each. Used $1/2 (RP 05/05/13, doubled to $2/2) = $2/2, or $1 each!
  • Frigo String Cheese: $2.48 with ad coupon. Used $0.75/1 (RP 06/02/13, doubled to $1.50/1) = paid $0.98!
  • 10 Yoplait Singles: 10/$5 with ad coupon. Used two $0.60/3 printables (doubled to $1.20/3) = paid $2.60/10, and got a $0.40 SavingStar deposit back!
  • Crystal Farms Butter: $1.98.
  • 2 International Delight Creamers: on clearance for $1.64 each. Used two $1/1 printables (doubled to $1.64 each) = 2 free! These were last-minute additions, and the coupons weren't supposed to be doubled, but the cashier had to manually enter them and she must not have realized I had already doubled 10 coupons (and I didn't either until later).
  • Total before coupons: $48.14. Total after coupons: $12.16!
Other Coupon Savings:
  • Walmart: Used $1.50/1 Mars Ice Cream Bars printable to get a 6-pack of Snickers Bars for $1.47. Used Free Belvita Breakfast Biscuits coupon from Facebook promotion to save $2.98.  Used two $3/1 Huggies printables to get 2 packs of diapers for $5.99 each. Used $1/1 Earthbound Farms product coupon from a mailer to get organic baby carrots for $0.28.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Menu Plan July 16-31

I meant to get this post up yesterday, but I was busier coming up with the menu and grocery shopping, so here it is today!

Tuesday, July 16
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: PB&J Sandwiches
Dinner: Black Bean Taco Salads

Wednesday, July 17
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: Out for wings with church members
Dinner: Chicken Salads

Thursday, July 18
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: Quesadillas
Dinner: BLTs, Fruit

Friday, July 19
Breakfast: Pancakes
Lunch: Turkey Cheese Pinwheels
Dinner: Crockpot Ham & Scalloped Potatoes

Saturday, July 20
Breakfast: Pancakes
Lunch: Area Pastors Picnic
Dinner: Ham & Green Bean Pasta

Sunday, July 21
Breakfast: Oatmeal with Dried Fruit & Nuts
Lunch: Eat Out (either McDonalds or Subway)
Dinner: Family Dinner - we're cooking Slow Cooker Jambalaya and Mini Corn Muffins

Monday,July 22
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: PB&J Sandwiches
Dinner: Homemade Macaroni & Cheese

Tuesday, July 23
Breakfast: Waffles
Lunch: Turkey Sandwiches
Dinner: Crockpot Beef & Broccoli

Wednesday, July 24
Breakfast: Waffles
Lunch: Quesadillas
Dinner: Chicken Stir Fry

Thursday, July 25
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: Turkey & Cheese Pinwheels
Dinner: Eggs, Bacon, & Toast

Friday, July 26
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: PB&J Sandwiches
Dinner: Chicken Bacon Ranch Pizza

Saturday, July 27
Breakfast: Oatmeal
Lunch: Hot Dogs
Dinner: Eat Out - not sure where yet, but it's our 6th anniversary!

Sunday, July 28
Breakfast: Muffins (not sure what kind)
Lunch: TBD
Dinner: Family Dinner

Monday, July 29
Breakfast: Cereal
Lunch: Turkey Sandwiches
Dinner: Chicken Fajitas

Tuesday, July 30
Breakfast: Oatmeal
Lunch: PB&J Sandwiches
Dinner: Grilled Cheese & Tomato Soup

Wednesday, July 31
Breakfast: Eggs & Toast
Lunch: TBD
Dinner: Loaded Nachos (crockpot refried beans, black olives, cheese, tomatoes, lettuce, and who knows what else)

As always, breakfasts and lunches move around depending on what we end up doing each day, but dinners are pretty well set.  And I may (hopefully) substitute a few more interesting new breakfast recipes for some of the "cereal" days, but I haven't figured out which ones yet.  Stay tuned!